We coach teen girls and guys, adults and advocates to boost self-respect, relationship respect and respect for all.
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- Tao of the Defiant Woman by CJ Golden
- Girls Inc. Presents: You're Amazing!: A No-Pressure Guide to Being Your Best Self by Claire Mysko
- All Made Up: A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty by Audrey D. Brashich
- Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters: The Frightening New Normalcy of Hating Your Body by Courtney E. Martin
- Women Warriors by Teena Apeles
- Packaging Girlhood by Sharon Lamb & Lyn Mikel Brown
- The Price of Privilege by Dr. Madeline Levine
- Do I Look Fat In This? and A Very Hungry Girl by Jessica Weiner
- The Real Truth About Teens and Sex by Sabrina Weill
- The Body Project by Joan Jacobs Brumberg
- 101 Ways to Help Your Daughter Love Her Body by Brenda Lane
- Dads and Daughters by Joe Kelly
- Branded: The Buying and Selling of Teenagers by Alissa Quart
- GLBTQ: The Survival Guide for Queer and Questioning Teens by Kelly Huegel
- Deal With It! by Esther Drill, et al.
- The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf
- Don't Give It Away! by Iyanla Vanzant
- 33 Things Every Girl Should Know About Women's History edited by Tonya Bolden
- Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou
- Perfectionism: What's Bad About Being Too Good? by Miriam Adderholdt & Jan Goldberg
- Reviving Ophelia by Mary Pipher
- Revolution from Within by Gloria Steinem
- Schoolgirls by Peggy Orenstein
- Odd Girl Speaks Out by Rachel Simmons
- Grassroots: A Field Guide for Feminist Activism by Jennifer Baumgardner & Amy Richards
- To Be Real: Telling the Truth and Changing the Face of Feminism edited by Rebecca Walker
- What Are My Rights? by Thomas A. Jacobs
- When Nothing Matters Anymore: A Survival Guide for Depressed Teens by Bev Cobain
- Adios, Barbie by Ophira Edut
- 101 Ways to Help Your Daughter Love Her Body by Brenda Lane Richardson & Elane Rehr
- Queen Bees and Wannabes by Rosalind Wiseman
- The Teenage Liberation Handbook by Grace Llewellyn
- Be True to Yourself: A Daily Guide for Teenage Girls by Amanda Ford & Shannon Berning
- Blue Jean: What Young Women Are Thinking, Saying, and Doing by Sherry S. Handel
- Life Lists for Teens by Pamela Espeland
- Meeting at the Crossroads by Carol Gilligan & Lyn Mikel Brown
- Perfectionism: What's Bad About Being Too Good? by Miriam, Ph.D. Elliott, et al.
- Real Girl Real World: Tools for Finding Your True Self by Heather M. Gray, et al.
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Advocates, Kit, Parents, Programs, Teachers
Respect Program for Teens: Leader's Guide!
Here is the status quo:
• 1 in every 2 females worldwide has been abused during her lifetime.
• 50% of teens in serious relationships say they've gone against their beliefs to please their partner, including going further sexually than they wanted.
• 1 in 5 teens who’ve been in a serious relationship report being hit, slapped or pushed by a partner.
• 3 out of 10 teen girls become pregnant.
• 1 in 3 students drop out of high school.
• 4 in 10 teen boys have a criminal record.
We believe respect is the remedy. When teens’ self-respect—and respect for others—is going strong, anything is possible. They make healthier choices, create respectful relationships, achieve their goals and become leaders who spread respect for all. To make respect the new status quo, we created the Respect: Keep It Going! Kit. Advocates can use the Kit to partner with teens to lead a respect-building program for 6 to 18 weeks.
Respect: Keep It Going! Kit
Leader’s Guide: A respect-building program for teens.
By Courtney Macavinta
founder of Respect Rx and co-author of RESPECT
During their “Respect Pod” sessions throughout the program, teens learn to:
• use the Respect Basics to build self-respect and make healthy choices
• value themselves
• follow their passions
• set boundaries and speak up
• listen to their gut and compassionately listen to others
• create relationships based on mutual respect
• get help dealing with disrespect dilemmas, such as peer pressure, dating and domestic violence, bullying, negative body image, the “-isms” and other tough issues
• lead social change to create a better world where all people are respected
The program builds on the themes and activities featured in our popular Respect Rally program, which we’ve led for thousands of teen girls and boys around the United States, as well as the award-winning book that I co-authored: RESPECT: A Girl’s Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed (Free Spirit Publishing, 2005). After completing just four sessions of our program, teens report notable outcomes:
• 98% of 500 teens surveyed understood the difference between respect and disrespect (up from 51% prior to the program)
• 90% of teens respected each other as equals (up from 65%)
• 82% felt equipped to make positive choices and act as role models (up from 42%)
• 94% said they feel more comfortable setting boundaries and speaking up (up from 70%)
• 81% said they will get help when they were disrespected or to achieve their goals (up from 42%)
Pod Sessions are:
• delivered during a 6- to 18-week program (your choice!)
• 60-minutes, experiential and include group discussion
• easily shortened, customized to fit within a wider youth development program and require minimal prep and supplies
• designed using the same activity template to create a consistent experience
• written to be led by teens, adults or co-lead
Also included in the Kit:
• evaluation templates and handouts
• membership to the Respect Connect social network, which includes training webinars, videos for Sessions, tips from other Kit users, a digital copy of the Kit and other resources
LOOK INSIDE!
Click here to view a PDF of the cover, introduction, table of contents, FAQ, session overview, sample session and back cover.
ORDER
$225.00 USD (+ $10 for U.S. shipping)
To order by check, fill out this order form and send a check or money order to:
Respect Rx
1743 Park Avenue #429
San Jose, CA 95126
(415) 315-9707
International Orders
Please email us directly at kit@respectrx.com to place your order and receive a shipping quote.
TRAINING
You can register for tele-coaching or on-site training to help you implement the Kit at your site. To inquire about training and fees, contact us: 415.315.9707 • kit@respectrx.com
PRAISE!
"The Respect: Keep It Going! Kit is extraordinary in its ability to provide fun, low-risk exercises to explore some of the most challenging issues teens face. The lessons are easy to teach and they're full of heart. The Kit gets teens' attention right away. I am excited to work with this curriculum!” —Rachel Simmons, founder of he Girls Leadership Institute and author of Odd Girl Out“Our faculty was trained to use the Respect: Keep It Going! Kit and we’ve have modified the lessons to use in a 6-week ‘Respect Mini-Series’ during our weekly homeroom meetings. We’re planning on implementing lessons in our homerooms every year as part of a school-wide goal to increase respect among our students.” —Amy Gose, guidance counselor, Blessed Trinity Catholic High School in Georgia
"As a result of the Respect Rx programs, many of the teens will be empowered to make changes that will help them develop into strong people who are confident, capable and self-reliant.”—Robert Lehr, Connecticut Association of Schools and Dove Self-Esteem Fund Partner
“Intuitive and organic, the activities were inspiring and incredibly impactful for the teens and adults alike.” —Leanne Gluck, program manager, Girl Scouts of the USA
"After the program, our students saw themselves as agents of change and developed ways to begin spreading respect locally and globally. If Respect Rallies happened at all schools across the nation, our world as a whole would definitely be impacted positively."
—Stephanie Payes, counselor, KIPP San Jose Collegiate
Product Details
Reading level: Young Adult
Paperback: 143 pages
Publisher: Respect Rx (January 1, 2010)
Language: English
Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 11.5 inches
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Kit: Rights & Permissions
Copyright 2009, Respect Rx LLC
Respect Rx, Respect Rally and Respect Basics are registered trademarks of Respect Rx LLC.
Permissions: The Respect: Keep It Going! Kit may be used by non-profit organizations, not-for-profit advocacy groups, and schools for non-commercial and educational use only. One site (chapter/affiliate/council/school location) per purchase has permission to use the Kit. Those who legally purchase the Kit may download additional PDF versions for the site which resides at the address on your sales receipt. But you may not make copies for multiple sites. Videos on the Respect Connect website may be used only on that website or for Kit activities and may not downloaded and distributed elsewhere.
Disclaimers: This Kit is intended for youth development and educational use only and not for medical or therapeutic use. To our knowledge, outside resources offered were available at the time of printing. We are not liable for accuracy of outside resources offered and don’t offer warranties of any kind for them. The materials in this Kit are provided "as is" and without warranties of any kind, either express or implied. Under no circumstances, including but not limited to negligence, will we be liable for any special or consequential damages that result from the use of, or the inability to use, the materials in this Kit. In no event shall the total liability to you by us for all damages, losses and causes of action (whether in contract, tort or otherwise) exceed the amount paid by you to us, if any, for purchasing this Kit
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Kit: Order Received!
Thank you for purchasing the Respect: Keep It Going! Kit.
For U.S. addresses, your Kit will be sent shortly via FedEx ground. For international orders, shipping times vary based on the option you selected.
Next, you'll also receive an email invite to Respect Connect, via Ning—our social network platform. Respect Connect access to training materials, including webinars that focus on how to use the Kit, demo certain activities and debrief activities so teens can get the most out of the sessions. If you don't receive an invite, send an email to kit@respectrx.com with the SUBJECT respect4all and you’ll receive an email invite to the network.
Return Policy
We hope the Kit meets your expectations. If not, you may return the Kit within 15 days of receipt for a refund less a 10% for a restocking fee if the Kit is undamaged. Customer responsible for return shipping cost and any loss of product in transit. Returns must be shipped to the address below with your original packing slip, including your customer information:
Respect Rx
1743 Park Avenue #429
San Jose, CA 95126
(415) 315-9707
Once returns are received, a refund will be issued based on above terms by check or Paypal within 15 days.
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