Hey all! I'm Courtney Macavinta, co-author of the best-selling book for teen girls RESPECT and founder of Respect Rx, which is devoted to empowering girls, women and their advocates to boost self-respect, sisterhood and social change in their lives—and our world.
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- Self-Respect + Self-Esteem (18)
- Sex (14)
- Social Change + Activism (20)
- Social Life (3)
- Special Events (8)
- Teachers (2)
- Women (11)
- Tao of the Defiant Woman by CJ Golden
- Girls Inc. Presents: You're Amazing!: A No-Pressure Guide to Being Your Best Self by Claire Mysko
- All Made Up: A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty by Audrey D. Brashich
- Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters: The Frightening New Normalcy of Hating Your Body by Courtney E. Martin
- Women Warriors by Teena Apeles
- Packaging Girlhood by Sharon Lamb & Lyn Mikel Brown
- The Price of Privilege by Dr. Madeline Levine
- Do I Look Fat In This? and A Very Hungry Girl by Jessica Weiner
- The Real Truth About Teens and Sex by Sabrina Weill
- The Body Project by Joan Jacobs Brumberg
- 101 Ways to Help Your Daughter Love Her Body by Brenda Lane
- Dads and Daughters by Joe Kelly
- Branded: The Buying and Selling of Teenagers by Alissa Quart
- GLBTQ: The Survival Guide for Queer and Questioning Teens by Kelly Huegel
- Deal With It! by Esther Drill, et al.
- The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf
- Don't Give It Away! by Iyanla Vanzant
- 33 Things Every Girl Should Know About Women's History edited by Tonya Bolden
- Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou
- Perfectionism: What's Bad About Being Too Good? by Miriam Adderholdt & Jan Goldberg
- Reviving Ophelia by Mary Pipher
- Revolution from Within by Gloria Steinem
- Schoolgirls by Peggy Orenstein
- Odd Girl Speaks Out by Rachel Simmons
- Grassroots: A Field Guide for Feminist Activism by Jennifer Baumgardner & Amy Richards
- To Be Real: Telling the Truth and Changing the Face of Feminism edited by Rebecca Walker
- What Are My Rights? by Thomas A. Jacobs
- When Nothing Matters Anymore: A Survival Guide for Depressed Teens by Bev Cobain
- Adios, Barbie by Ophira Edut
- 101 Ways to Help Your Daughter Love Her Body by Brenda Lane Richardson & Elane Rehr
- Queen Bees and Wannabes by Rosalind Wiseman
- The Teenage Liberation Handbook by Grace Llewellyn
- Be True to Yourself: A Daily Guide for Teenage Girls by Amanda Ford & Shannon Berning
- Blue Jean: What Young Women Are Thinking, Saying, and Doing by Sherry S. Handel
- Life Lists for Teens by Pamela Espeland
- Meeting at the Crossroads by Carol Gilligan & Lyn Mikel Brown
- Perfectionism: What's Bad About Being Too Good? by Miriam, Ph.D. Elliott, et al.
- Real Girl Real World: Tools for Finding Your True Self by Heather M. Gray, et al.
Press
Respect Rx founder Courtney Macavinta is an award-winning journalist, author, speaker and trained coach who has reached more than a million girls and women through her work. She has been featured on CNN, ABC, NBC, Fox and National Public Radio, and in USA Today, The Chicago Tribune, CosmoGIRL!, Teen People, Teen Vogue, Glamour, Mothering and numerous others media outlets.
Press Kit | Reviews, Praise & Testimonials
To schedule an interview with Courtney or to receive a review copy of RESPECT: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed, please contact:
Jen Jones
Director of Programs and Publicity
jen[at]respectrx.com
323-397-3867
You can also reach Courtney directly at:
courtney[at]respectrx.com
Online, Press
Think Pink
Respect Rx is goin' global! I did an interview with fabulous UK-based author Lisa Clark on her blog, "Think Pink." Click here to read our conversation on all things girl- and respect-related.
(7/25/08)
Press, Print
San Diego Union-Tribune
I recently traveled down to San Diego to co-lead the Jenna Druck Foundation's "Pretty, Hot, and Popular" workshop with the fabulous Jessica Weiner. Check out the coverage of the event in the San Diego Union-Tribune.
(7/20/08)
CosmoGIRL!
Courtney was featured with Venus Goddess Challenge contest winner Katy Weidner in the August 2008 issue. Courtney and Katy met in Los Angeles where Katy's winning essay about bringing 35 girls together to support kids in need was celebrated!
Teen Vogue
Have you ever had a "girl crush." A girl you want to be like or look up to big-time? Check out Court's take on girl crushes—when they inspire vs. when they drag you down—in this month's issue of Teen Vogue. The article is on page 150 and is by Melissa Walker. "If you find yourself copying another girl, being jealous of her, or letting her push you around, the relationship isn't healthy..."
TV
ABC
I often appear on San Francisco's "View from the Bay" show as a teen and girl culture expert. Here are recent segments:
"Dealing with sexual harassment and your teens" Does your teenage daughter know when she's being sexually harassed? It's far more prevalent than you might think. Courtney Macavinta, co-author of "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing," has some tips on talking to your children. Watch the clip.
(06/10/08)
"Much Ado About Miley:" Miley Cyrus’ sexy Vanity Fair photo shoot and her subsequent offer from Playboy are on the tips of collective tongues everywhere. Add in the sexy new Gossip Girl ad currently making waves—and focus on disturbing girl fight videos being posted on the web—and it’s no wonder that many parents are obviously concerned about how their daughters are being influenced by these media blasts and celebrity role models. Watch the clip here.
(05/14/08)
"Self-Respect for Teens:" A teenage girl's life today is often ruled by unrealistic images and ideals. This may be limiting their personal potential by creating a negative body image and putting them under unnecessary pressure. Here's what we can do as parents to encourage our girls to hold their heads up high with self-respect.
(11/06/07)
Online
Blogher Interview: Dominique Dawes
I got to interview Olympian Dominique Dawes on behalf of Blogher! We spoke about body image, self-esteem and my favorite topic: following your passions. Listen to the podcast here.
Glamour South Africa
For the June issue of Glamour SA, I weighed in on how gossip affects women--both on the starting and receiving end of those rumors.
(June 2008)
Mothering
Real Girl vs. Real World
Raising self-confident daughters despite society's mixed messages
(May/June 2008)
TV
Better Connecticut
While in Connecticut for Dove Self-Esteem Week, I had the privilege of appearing on the local CBS affiliate's morning news show, "Better Connecticut," to talk about our work with local schools and families.
(05/02/08)
CosmoGIRL!
I'm featured as a CosmoGIRL! *inner* beauty expert in the March issue. Tips include Follow Your Passions and Trust Your Gut!
Teen Vogue
Check out the article Gossip Girls (page 234) in the March issue of Teen Vogue. I dish some advice about why we gossip and how to give it up!
Online
WORKS
Respect in the Workplace
Your boss constantly talks down to you, your co-workers are dismissive of your ideas, and sometimes you feel like your intern thinks that you work for her, instead of the other way around--sound familiar? If you're wondering where all the R-E-S-P-E-C-T has gone at work, check out this article (featuring moi!) at NicoleWilliams.com.
American Cheerleader
As a former cheerleading captain myself, it was a lot of fun to contribute to this story called "Take the Lead," on how squad captains can call the shots with class.
(August 2007)
TV
CNN
Live Today with Daryn Kagan
Topics: Fighting for your rights, bullying and spreading respect for girls at school.
(International, 4 million viewers, 8/23/05)
USA Today
Parents Are Tech-Savvier
How parents and teens can keep the communication (and respect) flowing with the help of technology.
(05/17/06)
Online
Huffington Post
Posts on girl culture:
Girls For A Change
What I Want For Girls, I Learned From My Mom
New Haven Register
Unilever rep in state to boost teenage girls' self-esteem
Recently, Unilever sent Courtney Macavinta, a blogger for RespectRx and author who specializes in girls'
self-esteem, to the Connecticut Association of Schools to show teachers, guidance counselors, school
nurses and social workers how to model healthy self-esteem for their students.
05/02/07
Online
Girl Scouts
Advice articles featured on Girl Scouts of America's STUDIO 2B web site for teens:
Quiz: Does Respect Rule Your Relationship?
Friendship Rx
Respect Basics
Radio
710 KIRO News
The Ron Upshaw and Don O'Neill on Newsradio
Topic: Girls getting plastic surgery as graduation gifts.
(Seattle, 05/07/07)
Radio
Z95-3
The Nat & Drew Show
Topic: Teens getting plastic surgery as graduation gifts.
(Richmond, BC, 05/17/07)
Quick & Simple
Lessons in Self-Respect
Read this and change your daughter's life.
(2/07/06)
Daughters
Does She Feel Successful?
What happens when our expectations pressure girls to be "perfect?"
(May/June 2007)
Ask the Expert
My daughter is being disrespected by her friends...
(March/April 2007)
Helping Her Change Disrespectful Language
What to do if your daughter calls herself or other girls names like "bitch," "ho" or "slut."
(May/June 2006)
Online
MSNBC.com
Is cosmetic surgery an appropriate commencement gift for teens?
“By giving teen girls, in particular, surgery we’re just sending this message to them that they can be anything they want to be — they can go to any school or do anything in life — as long as they look a certain way on the outside..."
(05/07/07)
Do TV Shows, Web Sites Fuel Eating Disorders?
"I think things will change when women and girls understand that respecting their bodies is part of respecting themselves. We need to start teaching girls, especially, to view their bodies as cherished tools, treasures. If you're not taking care of your body, you're not going to reach your potential..."
(09/06/05)
TV
KRON 4
Sunday Daybreak
Topics: The 7 Respect Basics, sisterhood, and fighting for equal rights.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 08/21/05)
TV
KTVU-Fox
Mornings on 2
Topics: Teen girls' body image and The 7 Respect Basics.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 08/22/05)
TV
KTVU-Fox
Bay Area People
Topic: Why girls need respect.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 08/27/05)
TV
NBC 11
Bay Area Today
Topics: Dealing with cyberbullying.
(Northern California, 08/15/05)
Award
IPPY
RESPECT named 2006 Independent Publisher Book Award Winner: Juvenile-Teen-Y/A Non-Fiction.
Award
iParenting Media
Respect named a "2005 Greatest Product" by iParenting Media.
Radio
Wisconsin Public Radio
Newsmaker: Courtney Macavinta
* 30 minutes, MP3 format
Reporters from around the state ask questions about social equality, teen trends, how teens can make healthy choices, and how parents can help teens build self-respect.
(05/01/06)
Kathleen Dunn Show
* 1 hour, Real Audio format
A new goverment study found that more than half of teens are having oral sex. What's behind the trend and how teens can make smart, self-respecting choices.
(27 stations throughout state, 09/21/05)
CosmoGirl
How To Say No!
Turn people down without letting them down.
(11/05)
Teen People
What's Your Secret Super Power?
Forget the cape and mask--you have an incredible quality that makes you mighty unique.
(11/05)
San Jose Mercury News
Steamy TV Brings Worry About Teens
page 1 | page 2
The amount of sex on television has almost doubled in recent years, stoking already intense concerns about the media's influence on teenagers' sexual behavior and relationships.
Also ran in the Kansas City Star, Kentucy Herald Leader and The Telegraph (Georgia).
(11/10/05)
Online
Common Sense Media
Do-It-Yourself Media For Teens
Have you ever thought about creating your own media as an alternative to what’s out there? Imagine what you’d like to read, view, and listen to – then venture into do-it-yourself media. Here’s how...
(11/04/05)
Teen People
What I'm Reading
Editor recommends RESPECT in back-to-school issue.
(09/05)
La Crosse Tribune
Prom Night Pressure
Do's and don'ts for prom night, and how to navigate the "milestones and land mines" associated with the biggest event of the year for many teens.
(04/30/06)
Chicago Tribune
Book Review: What Girls Really Need
Although girls have gained more equality since the days of their great-grandmothers, there's one thing they continue to fight for: respect. In "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed," Courtney Macavinta and Andrea Vander Pluym educate teenage girls on achieving the esteem they deserve.
(08/28/05)
Online
Common Sense Media
Making Healthy Resolutions
Turn on the TV, surf the Web, flip through a magazine and you'll find them lurking: Ads for all kinds of gym memberships, weight-loss plans, and diet supplements.
(01/06/06)
KLIATT
Respect recommended in leading magazine that thousands of teachers and librarians across the U.S. and Canada rely on to help them select the latest and best materials.
(07/05)
Online
Bookslut
When Magazine Whore is Crowned Queen
Taking inventory of the media myths being pitched to girls.
(1/06)
Pittsburgh Tribune-Review
Changing Interests Can Put an End to 'F/F'
Breaking up with a friend is both healthy and necessary in many cases, Macavinta says. If a friend regularly pressures you to do things you don't want to do, disrespects you in any way or is simply incompatible, either fade out or make a clean break. "You are who you run with; you marinate in the people you hang around with.."
(10/18/05)
Star Tribune (King Features Syndicate)
Help Me, Harlan
Girls with little self-respect tend to lie and get disrespected.
(10/03/05)
Pittsburgh Tribune-Review
Mean Girls
To elevate themselves and hurt others, girls hit each other where they know it hurts: their relationships.
(09/06/05)
The Seattle Times
When Private Becomes Public
How kids can avoid dangers on the Internet and deal with cyberbullying.
(09/03/05)
ANG Newspapers: Bay Area Living
Cyberbullying
Technologically savvy, today's toughs wield computers and cell phones while waging relentless psychological attacks against their victims.
(08/30/05)
Canada's The Globe and Mail
Selling Self-Help to Teens
As girls re-enter the school jungle, there's a new genre to the rescue.
(08/27/05)
The Sacramento Bee
Bullies: A schoolyard scourge and how to counter it
Find out your school's policy on bullying and harassment and know exactly what constitutes bullying. "A lot of people think of bullying as beating people up ... but a lot of bullying now is verbal," said Courtney Macavinta, co-author of "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed."
(08/27/05)
Online
Women's eNews
Feds May Fund Programs for Teen Dating Violence
Courtney Macavinta, co-author of "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed," to be published by Free Spirit Publishing in August, says a major part of the solution is girls who know their rights, the definitions of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse and how to ask for help.
Also ran on AlterNet.
(07/08/05)
Online
YPulse
R-E-S-P-E-C-T, Find Out What it Means to Girls
There's a new teen girl guide book out written by two very cool chicks -- journalist and ChickClick vet Courtney Macavinta and teen advice book author Andrea Vander Pluym. The name of their book is "Respect" and the idea is "to help girls get respect and hold on to it." It's big sisterly advice combined with cool illustrations and is being marketed to both teen girls and parents/adults.
(07/13/05)
Radio
CPW Utah Public Radio
Public Affairs Hour
Mean girls and how to deal with bullying by building your self-respect.
(Utah, 08/26/05)
Radio
Full Power Living
Hosted by Ilene Dillon
How teen girls can make self-respecting choices about sex, relationships and health.
(World Talk Radio, 09/13/05)
Radio
KUSF 90.3 FM
USF Forum
Author Q&A about the book.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 10/23/05)
Radio
Utah AM 820
Wakin' Up With Rebecca and Kurt
Author Q&A about the book. Dealing with sexual harassment and bullying.
(Utah, 08/11/05 and 8/31/05)
Radio
The Ruth Koscielak Show
Cyber-bullying and setting boundaries.
(Minneapolis-St. Paul, 08/17/05)
Radio
WFMP-FM
A Balanced Breakfast with Ian and Margery Punnett
Sexual harassment at school and setting boundaries.
(Minneapolis-St. Paul, 08/23/05)
Radio
USA Radio Network
Daybreak USA
Girls and the media, body image and self-respect.
(National, 1 million listeners, 08/26/05)
Radio
Jefferson Public Radio
Jefferson Exchange
Myths, stereotypes and media images that affect girls.
(Oregon and Northern California NPR stations, 08/17/05)
Press
Praise for RESPECT
What reviewers from The Washington Post, Chicago Tribune and best-selling books have to say:







