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Respect Rx founder Courtney Macavinta is an award-winning journalist, author, speaker and trained coach who has reached more than a million teens and adults hrough her work. She has been featured on CNN, ABC, NBC, Fox and National Public Radio, and in USA Today, The Chicago Tribune, CosmoGIRL!, Teen People, Teen Vogue, Glamour, Mothering and numerous others media outlets.

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To schedule an interview with Courtney or to receive a review copy of RESPECT: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed, please contact:

Morgan Wiley morgan@respectrx.com

You can also reach Courtney directly at:
courtney[at]respectrx.com

 
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Voice of America

Teen & Parent leadership development.
Learn how you can support the growth of future leaders now by applying RESPECT Rx in today’s challenging environment at work and at home.


 
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San Diego Union-Tribune

I recently traveled down to San Diego to co-lead the Jenna Druck Foundation's "Pretty, Hot, and Popular" workshop with the fabulous Jessica Weiner. Check out the coverage of the event in the San Diego Union-Tribune.
(7/20/08)


 
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CosmoGIRL!

Courtney was featured with Venus Goddess Challenge contest winner Katy Weidner in the August 2008 issue. Courtney and Katy met in Los Angeles where Katy's winning essay about bringing 35 girls together to support kids in need was celebrated!


 
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Teen Vogue

Have you ever had a "girl crush." A girl you want to be like or look up to big-time? Check out Court's take on girl crushes—when they inspire vs. when they drag you down—in this month's issue of Teen Vogue. The article is on page 150 and is by Melissa Walker. "If you find yourself copying another girl, being jealous of her, or letting her push you around, the relationship isn't healthy..."


 
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ABC

I often appear on San Francisco's "View from the Bay" show as a teen and girl culture expert. Here are recent segments:

"Dealing with sexual harassment and your teens" Does your teenage daughter know when she's being sexually harassed? It's far more prevalent than you might think. Courtney Macavinta, co-author of "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing," has some tips on talking to your children. Watch the clip.
(06/10/08)

"Much Ado About Miley:" Miley Cyrus’ sexy Vanity Fair photo shoot and her subsequent offer from Playboy are on the tips of collective tongues everywhere. Add in the sexy new Gossip Girl ad currently making waves—and focus on disturbing girl fight videos being posted on the web—and it’s no wonder that many parents are obviously concerned about how their daughters are being influenced by these media blasts and celebrity role models. Watch the clip here.
(05/14/08)

"Self-Respect for Teens:" A teenage girl's life today is often ruled by unrealistic images and ideals. This may be limiting their personal potential by creating a negative body image and putting them under unnecessary pressure. Here's what we can do as parents to encourage our girls to hold their heads up high with self-respect.
(11/06/07)


 
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Blogher Interview: Dominique Dawes

I got to interview Olympian Dominique Dawes on behalf of Blogher! We spoke about body image, self-esteem and my favorite topic: following your passions. Listen to the podcast here.


 
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Glamour South Africa

For the June issue of Glamour SA, I weighed in on how gossip affects women--both on the starting and receiving end of those rumors.
(June 2008)


 
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Mothering

Real Girl vs. Real World
Raising self-confident daughters despite society's mixed messages
(May/June 2008)


 
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Better Connecticut

While in Connecticut for Dove Self-Esteem Week, I had the privilege of appearing on the local CBS affiliate's morning news show, "Better Connecticut," to talk about our work with local schools and families.
(05/02/08)


 
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CosmoGIRL!

I'm featured as a CosmoGIRL! *inner* beauty expert in the March issue. Tips include Follow Your Passions and Trust Your Gut!


 
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Teen Vogue

Check out the article Gossip Girls (page 234) in the March issue of Teen Vogue. I dish some advice about why we gossip and how to give it up!


 
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Think Pink

Respect Rx is goin' global! I did an interview with fabulous UK-based author Lisa Clark on her blog, "Think Pink." Click here to read our conversation on all things girl- and respect-related.
(7/25/08)


 
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WORKS

Respect in the Workplace
Your boss constantly talks down to you, your co-workers are dismissive of your ideas, and sometimes you feel like your intern thinks that you work for her, instead of the other way around--sound familiar? If you're wondering where all the R-E-S-P-E-C-T has gone at work, check out this article (featuring moi!) at NicoleWilliams.com.


 
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American Cheerleader

As a former cheerleading captain myself, it was a lot of fun to contribute to this story called "Take the Lead," on how squad captains can call the shots with class.
(August 2007)


 
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CNN

Live Today with Daryn Kagan
Topics: Fighting for your rights, bullying and spreading respect for girls at school.
(International, 4 million viewers, 8/23/05)


 
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USA Today

Parents Are Tech-Savvier
How parents and teens can keep the communication (and respect) flowing with the help of technology.
(05/17/06)


 
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Huffington Post

Posts on girl culture, teen/women's issues and women


 
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New Haven Register

Unilever rep in state to boost teenage girls' self-esteem
Recently, Unilever sent Courtney Macavinta, a blogger for RespectRx and author who specializes in girls'
self-esteem, to the Connecticut Association of Schools to show teachers, guidance counselors, school
nurses and social workers how to model healthy self-esteem for their students.
05/02/07


 
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Girl Scouts

Advice articles featured on Girl Scouts of America's STUDIO 2B web site for teens:
Quiz: Does Respect Rule Your Relationship?
Friendship Rx
Respect Basics


 
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710 KIRO News

The Ron Upshaw and Don O'Neill on Newsradio
Topic: Girls getting plastic surgery as graduation gifts.
(Seattle, 05/07/07)


 
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Z95-3

The Nat & Drew Show
Topic: Teens getting plastic surgery as graduation gifts.
(Richmond, BC, 05/17/07)


 
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Quick & Simple

Lessons in Self-Respect
Read this and change your daughter's life.
(2/07/06)


 
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Daughters

Does She Feel Successful?
What happens when our expectations pressure girls to be "perfect?"
(May/June 2007)

Ask the Expert
My daughter is being disrespected by her friends...
(March/April 2007)

Helping Her Change Disrespectful Language
What to do if your daughter calls herself or other girls names like "bitch," "ho" or "slut."
(May/June 2006)


 
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MSNBC.com

Is cosmetic surgery an appropriate commencement gift for teens?
“By giving teen girls, in particular, surgery we’re just sending this message to them that they can be anything they want to be — they can go to any school or do anything in life — as long as they look a certain way on the outside..."
(05/07/07)

Do TV Shows, Web Sites Fuel Eating Disorders?
"I think things will change when women and girls understand that respecting their bodies is part of respecting themselves. We need to start teaching girls, especially, to view their bodies as cherished tools, treasures. If you're not taking care of your body, you're not going to reach your potential..."
(09/06/05)


 
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KRON 4

Sunday Daybreak
Topics: The 7 Respect Basics, sisterhood, and fighting for equal rights.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 08/21/05)


 
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KTVU-Fox

Mornings on 2
Topics: Teen girls' body image and The 7 Respect Basics.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 08/22/05)


 
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KTVU-Fox

Bay Area People
Topic: Why girls need respect.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 08/27/05)


 
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NBC 11

Bay Area Today
Topics: Dealing with cyberbullying.
(Northern California, 08/15/05)


 
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IPPY

RESPECT named 2006 Independent Publisher Book Award Winner: Juvenile-Teen-Y/A Non-Fiction.


 
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iParenting Media

Respect named a "2005 Greatest Product" by iParenting Media.


 
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Wisconsin Public Radio

Newsmaker: Courtney Macavinta
* 30 minutes, MP3 format
Reporters from around the state ask questions about social equality, teen trends, how teens can make healthy choices, and how parents can help teens build self-respect.
(05/01/06)

Kathleen Dunn Show
* 1 hour, Real Audio format
A new goverment study found that more than half of teens are having oral sex. What's behind the trend and how teens can make smart, self-respecting choices.
(27 stations throughout state, 09/21/05)


 
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CosmoGirl

How To Say No!
Turn people down without letting them down.
(11/05)


 
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Teen People

What's Your Secret Super Power?
Forget the cape and mask--you have an incredible quality that makes you mighty unique.
(11/05)


 
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San Jose Mercury News

Steamy TV Brings Worry About Teens
page 1 | page 2
The amount of sex on television has almost doubled in recent years, stoking already intense concerns about the media's influence on teenagers' sexual behavior and relationships.
Also ran in the Kansas City Star, Kentucy Herald Leader and The Telegraph (Georgia).
(11/10/05)


 
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Common Sense Media

Do-It-Yourself Media For Teens
Have you ever thought about creating your own media as an alternative to what’s out there? Imagine what you’d like to read, view, and listen to – then venture into do-it-yourself media. Here’s how...
(11/04/05)


 
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Teen People

What I'm Reading
Editor recommends RESPECT in back-to-school issue.
(09/05)


 
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La Crosse Tribune

Prom Night Pressure
Do's and don'ts for prom night, and how to navigate the "milestones and land mines" associated with the biggest event of the year for many teens.
(04/30/06)


 
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Chicago Tribune

Book Review: What Girls Really Need
Although girls have gained more equality since the days of their great-grandmothers, there's one thing they continue to fight for: respect. In "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed," Courtney Macavinta and Andrea Vander Pluym educate teenage girls on achieving the esteem they deserve.
(08/28/05)


 
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Common Sense Media

Making Healthy Resolutions
Turn on the TV, surf the Web, flip through a magazine and you'll find them lurking: Ads for all kinds of gym memberships, weight-loss plans, and diet supplements.
(01/06/06)


 
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KLIATT

Respect recommended in leading magazine that thousands of teachers and librarians across the U.S. and Canada rely on to help them select the latest and best materials.
(07/05)

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Bookslut

When Magazine Whore is Crowned Queen
Taking inventory of the media myths being pitched to girls.
(1/06)


 
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Pittsburgh Tribune-Review

Changing Interests Can Put an End to 'F/F'
Breaking up with a friend is both healthy and necessary in many cases, Macavinta says. If a friend regularly pressures you to do things you don't want to do, disrespects you in any way or is simply incompatible, either fade out or make a clean break. "You are who you run with; you marinate in the people you hang around with.."
(10/18/05)


 
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Star Tribune (King Features Syndicate)

Help Me, Harlan
Girls with little self-respect tend to lie and get disrespected.
(10/03/05)


 
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Pittsburgh Tribune-Review

Mean Girls
To elevate themselves and hurt others, girls hit each other where they know it hurts: their relationships.
(09/06/05)


 
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The Seattle Times

When Private Becomes Public
How kids can avoid dangers on the Internet and deal with cyberbullying.
(09/03/05)


 
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ANG Newspapers: Bay Area Living

Cyberbullying
Technologically savvy, today's toughs wield computers and cell phones while waging relentless psychological attacks against their victims.
(08/30/05)


 
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Canada's The Globe and Mail

Selling Self-Help to Teens
As girls re-enter the school jungle, there's a new genre to the rescue.
(08/27/05)


 
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The Sacramento Bee

Bullies: A schoolyard scourge and how to counter it
Find out your school's policy on bullying and harassment and know exactly what constitutes bullying. "A lot of people think of bullying as beating people up ... but a lot of bullying now is verbal," said Courtney Macavinta, co-author of "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed."
(08/27/05)


 
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Women's eNews

Feds May Fund Programs for Teen Dating Violence
Courtney Macavinta, co-author of "Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed," to be published by Free Spirit Publishing in August, says a major part of the solution is girls who know their rights, the definitions of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse and how to ask for help.
Also ran on AlterNet.
(07/08/05)


 
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YPulse

R-E-S-P-E-C-T, Find Out What it Means to Girls
There's a new teen girl guide book out written by two very cool chicks -- journalist and ChickClick vet Courtney Macavinta and teen advice book author Andrea Vander Pluym. The name of their book is "Respect" and the idea is "to help girls get respect and hold on to it." It's big sisterly advice combined with cool illustrations and is being marketed to both teen girls and parents/adults.
(07/13/05)


 
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CPW Utah Public Radio

Public Affairs Hour
Mean girls and how to deal with bullying by building your self-respect.
(Utah, 08/26/05)


 
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Full Power Living

Hosted by Ilene Dillon
How teen girls can make self-respecting choices about sex, relationships and health.
(World Talk Radio, 09/13/05)


 
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KUSF 90.3 FM

USF Forum
Author Q&A about the book.
(San Francisco Bay Area, 10/23/05)



 
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Utah AM 820

Wakin' Up With Rebecca and Kurt
Author Q&A about the book. Dealing with sexual harassment and bullying.
(Utah, 08/11/05 and 8/31/05)


 
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The Ruth Koscielak Show

Cyber-bullying and setting boundaries.
(Minneapolis-St. Paul, 08/17/05)


 
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WFMP-FM

A Balanced Breakfast with Ian and Margery Punnett
Sexual harassment at school and setting boundaries.
(Minneapolis-St. Paul, 08/23/05)


 
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USA Radio Network

Daybreak USA
Girls and the media, body image and self-respect.
(National, 1 million listeners, 08/26/05)


 
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Jefferson Public Radio

Jefferson Exchange
Myths, stereotypes and media images that affect girls.
(Oregon and Northern California NPR stations, 08/17/05)


 
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Praise for RESPECT

What reviewers from The Washington Post, Chicago Tribune and best-selling books have to say:

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